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			Scriptures:
			2 Timothy 3:16 
			(NIV) – “All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, 
			rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness,” 
			
			
			2 Peter 1:21 
			(NIV) – “For prophesy never had its origin in the will of man, but 
			men spoke from God as they were carried along by the Holy Spirit.”
			 
			
			
			Matthew 
			22:31-32 (NIV) – “‘But about the resurrection of the dead – have 
			you not read what God said to you, “I am the God of Abraham, the God 
			of Isaac, and the God of Jacob”?  He is not the God of the dead but 
			of the living.’” 
			
			
			
			Message: 
			The question from Jesus in Matthew 22:31 implies that God speaks to 
			us directly through Scripture and in Scripture. 
			
			
			Did you ever visit the Bible based theme park, “The Holy Land”, in 
			Orlando?  Did you go to the Scriptorium for the unique opportunity 
			to explore the history of the Bible and its ancient manuscripts? 
			 The interactive experiences and stories of all that happened to 
			bring the Bible to fruition through the centuries changed my life 
			forever, and established a permanent appreciation for me every time 
			I sit to read it.  I am so grateful.  It overwhelms me when I think 
			of all that transpired throughout history so that I can have my 
			Bible with me to read and meditate on God’s Word. 
			
			
			Do you treasure your Bible as God’s own words, revealing His truth? 
			 As living water from God with transformative power?  God’s Bible 
			narrative provides a mirror which reflects the glory of Christ to 
			us.  We behold Christ’s glory through reading and meditating on the 
			Bible.  
			
			
			
			Prayer: 
			Transform us, Heavenly Father, as we read our Bibles this Lenten 
			season.  Open our hearts, minds, and souls to Your glory, so that we 
			may reflect You and Your love in our lives.  Thank You for a renewed 
			love of Your Word.  Thank You for a renewed passion for a deeper, 
			covenantal intimacy with You.  In Jesus’ Name.  Amen      
			
			Bette Hillman 
			
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			Scriptures: 
			Psalm 34:8 (KJV) – “O taste and see that the Lord is good;”  
			
			
			Genesis 1:4 (KJV) 
			– “And 
			God saw the light, that it was good; and God divided the light from 
			the darkness.”  
			
				
				Psalm 31:19 
			(NRSV) – 
			“O how abundant 
			is your goodness.”  
			
			
			Exodus 33:18-19a 
			(NIV) – “Then Moses said, ‘Now show me your glory.’ And the Lord 
			said, ‘I will cause all my goodness to pass in front of you,’”
			  
			
			Message: 
			Last Fall, Skip and I were driving back to Orlando from visiting 
			Grant, Carrie, Willow, Sage, and their labradoodle, Luna. Our visit 
			was such a contrast to the harshness and cruelty in our world. 
			 
			
			As reported in 
			the news, the media motto today seems to be: “If it bleeds, it 
			leads!”  
			
			I was overcome 
			by a joyous feeling and blurted out to Skip, “We just had a four-day 
			experience of Goodness!" I can’t remember last when I used 
			that word, yet it was the perfect word description! 
			
			Divine Goodness 
			is sweetness, friendliness, benevolence, and generosity. It came to 
			us through joy, laughter, food, granddaughters, friends, babies, 
			puppies, and flowers! What a bountiful four days of God’s Goodness. The Peace is undeniable. 
			
			The Goodness of 
			God makes us humble, patient, trusting, and thankful. When we 
			meditate on the overwhelming Goodness of God, it stirs us to worship 
			Him. 
			
			Family Activity: 
			As a 
			family, come up with a list of different ways that you are able to 
			see God in your lives. Then discuss ways in which you can help, 
			show kindness and love others when they might find it difficult to 
			have faith. 
			
			Prayer: 
			Thank You, Father, for Your bountiful blessings of Goodness. Open 
			our hearts to receive your Goodness in these days of Lent as we 
			reflect on the life of Your Son, Jesus. Thank You for this greatest 
			gift of Goodness to us. Bless us to pass it on to others in our 
			lives. Keep us alert to the many opportunities we have to share 
			your Goodness to others. In Your Holy name, we pray. Amen. 
			
			Bette Hillman 
			
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			Scriptures: 
			
			Exodus 4:10-12 
			(NIV) – “Moses said to the Lord, ‘Pardon your servant, Lord.  I have 
			never been eloquent, neither in the past nor since you have spoken 
			to your servant.  I am slow of speech and tongue.’  The Lord said to 
			him, ‘Who gave human beings their mouths?  Who makes them deaf or 
			mute?  Who gives them sight or makes them blind?  Is it not I, the 
			Lord?  Now go; I will help you speak and will teach you what to 
			say.’” 
			
			
			Revelation 
			21:5-6 (NIV) – “He who was seated on the throne said, ‘I am 
			making everything new!’  Then he said, ‘Write this down, for these 
			words are trustworthy and true.’  He said to me: ‘It is done.  I am 
			the Alpha and the Omega, the Beginning and the End.  To the thirsty 
			I will give water without cost from the spring of the water of 
			life.’” 
			
			
			Message: 
			Comparisons, competition, and calls for censorship abound.  We are 
			bombarded by messages through communication media no other era 
			before us has known.  This messaging can be confusing, nonsensical, 
			and overwhelming.  The communication onslaught can result in 
			crippling stress and anxiety and cause us to shut down altogether. 
			 Many times the overload of conflicting messages has caused me to 
			shut down. 
			
			At these times, when conflicting 
			messaging overwhelms me, I am overcome with questions.  Which is 
			God’s Will?  Is it the call of Christ for re-evaluation, or is it 
			temptation causing me to question my faith?  I feel frozen and lose 
			all confidence in myself.  The Bible, which at one time was a 
			textbook in our universities, has so many answers and wisdom. 
			 Therefore, I turn to my Bible and listen to what God is saying.
			 
			
			These unlikely verses from Moses and 
			John provide renewed confidence to continue forward, listening as 
			best I can through the “sounding brass” and “clanging cymbals” of 
			the world’s messaging.  I am listening for my Savior, for my God.  I 
			hear Him through these verses. 
			
			
			Prayer: 
			Father God, as we pour our hearts out to You in praise, in sorrow, 
			in profound need, or joyous thanksgiving, thank You for hearing and 
			answering our prayers.  We know that You are here listening, caring, 
			soothing, and healing even when we are overwhelmed by the noise of 
			the world.  Thank You for Your still small voice, in Jesus’ name we 
			pray.  Amen. 
			
			
			Bette Hillman 
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			Scriptures: 
			
			James 5:14-15 
			(NIV) - "Is anyone among you sick?  Let them call the elders of 
			the church to pray over them and anoint them with oil in the name of 
			the Lord.  And the prayer offered in faith will make the sick 
			person well; the Lord will raise them up.  If they have sinned, 
			they will be forgiven."  
			
			
			Acts 4:20 (NIV) - "As for us, we cannot help 
			speaking about what we have seen and heard."  
			
			Message: 
			In early 2022, 
			our son, Grant, had a full healing of his body after 5 years of 
			debilitating pain.  No doctors were able to help.  He was 
			unable to play with his children, exercise at the gym other than 
			approved rehab exercises. 
			
			His wife, Carrie, encouraged him to pray.  
			Even though he didn't want to bother God, he prayed without the 
			complete expectation that God would heal him.  It wasn't that 
			he thought God couldn't heal him.  It was more that He 
			wouldn't. 
			
			They were surrounded by wonderful friends who 
			encouraged my son to seek the Lord.  Some of these friends 
			collectively prayed for him after a night of worship.  Women, 
			children, and men laid hands on his back and anointed him with oil 
			in the Lord's name. 
			
			The next day he woke up and thought, "I think I am 
			healed".  Instead of going to the gym to do rehab exercises, he 
			jumped on the basketball court and played pain free.  Then he 
			went for a run. 
			
			My son feels like the blind man who cannot help 
			but share his story.  He has continued to be pain free, even on 
			a ten-day mission trip to India in September 2022.  Praise God! 
			
			"This is not a recipe for prayer success.  
			Why was I healed and not my best friend with cancer?  I don't 
			know, but I thank God that He does know and that He is sovereign 
			over everything.  Our next step of obedience is to share this 
			story," my son says.  "The true healing is what Jesus has done 
			in my heart by releasing me from the chains of sin.". 
			
			My son's prayer is that we re-read the Gospels 
			with fresh eyes and really come to know Jesus. 
			
			Prayer: 
			Heavenly Father, 
			thank You for this story.  Thank You that You continue to heal 
			in the world today.  Thank You for paying the price for our 
			sins on the cross.  We praise and glorify Your name in all the 
			earth.  Amen. 
			
			
			Bette Hillman 
			
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			Scriptures: 
			
			Psalm 19:14 (KJV) 
			- "May the words of my mouth and the meditations of my heart be 
			pleasing in your sight, O Lord, my Strength and my Redeemer."  
			
			
			Proverbs 18:21 (NKJV) - "Death and life are in the 
			power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruit." 
			
			
			James 3:8-10 (NKJV) - "But no man can tame the 
			tongue.  It is an unruly evil, full of deadly poison.  
			With it we bless our God and Father, and with it we curse men, who 
			have been made in the similitude of God.  Out of the same mouth 
			proceed blessing and cursing.  My brethren, these things ought 
			not to be so."  
			
			Message: 
			While at the 
			computer I made the mistake of reading an article in addition to the 
			Twitter comments.  It hurt my eyes to read the words and see 
			the verbal explosion of hateful, emotional, negative verbal venting. 
			
			Who would allow themselves to think such thoughts?  
			Write such words?  Publish such words? 
			
			Where is the governor of the mind?  Where is 
			the boundary for what you will or will not utter?  Who do you 
			become when things don't go your way? 
			
			The blessing of adulthood is the opportunity to 
			choose.  During this unbridled time in history where no 
			boundaries prevail, let us choose to look to our God and our Savior 
			Jesus Christ.  What would Jesus say?  What boundary line 
			would Jesus draw for us to choose? 
			
			Prayer: 
			Holy Father, bridal 
			our tongues for Your great glory.  Give us Your grace, 
			compassion, and wisdom to choose our words to show Your love, to 
			provide healing, to provide peace.  Create in us a heart so 
			close to Yours that our words reflect You in every aspect of our 
			lives.  Thank You for Your Son, Jesus, for it is in His name we 
			pray.  Amen. 
			
			Bette Hillman 
			
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			Scriptures: 
			John 14:16-17a (NIV) – “And I will ask the Father, and he will give 
			you another Counselor, to be with you forever – the Spirit of Truth”
			 
			
			
			
			
			John 
			
			14:26a
			(KJV) – “But the Comforter, which is the 
			Holy Ghost, whom the Father will send in my name, he shall teach you 
			all things,” 
			
			
			John 14:1 
			(NIV) – “Don’t let your hearts be troubled.  Trust in God, and trust 
			also in me.” 
			
			 John 
			16:7b-c (KJV) – “It is expedient for you that I go away: for if 
			I go not away, the Comforter will not come unto you; but if I 
			depart, I will send him unto you.” 
			
			
			
			
			
			Message: 
			When Jesus was preparing to leave this earth, He comforted His 
			disciples. John 14:1 “Do not let your hearts be troubled. Trust in 
			God; trust also in me.” He said trust Him. The separation would be 
			temporary. He told them He was going to be with the Father and that 
			even then He could hear their prayers.  
			
			
			The Greek word for “another” means: “another that is just like the 
			first." So, Jesus is saying that the one who is coming is just like 
			Him! He adds that it is for your good that I am going away. “Unless 
			I go away, the Counselor will not come to you. But if I go, I will 
			send him to you.  
			
			For if I go not 
			away, the Comforter will not come unto you; but if I depart, I will 
			send him unto you.” (John 16:7b-c).
			
			
			
			
			
			My son, Grant, gave me the book “Forgotten God: Reversing Our Tragic 
			Neglect of the Holy Spirit”1 by Francis Chan. I am so grateful. The 
			book challenged me to re-read the Book of John, especially Chapters 
			14-16. My goal was to just receive it as if for the first time. 
			There was a deeper, new, and more personal meaning for me. I 
			visualized myself at the table as if I was present and hearing the 
			words of Jesus. How illuminating! There are no words to express the 
			wonder and awe of hearing His words as if for the first time! 
			
			
			The Holy Spirit is here to comfort us, to counsel us just as Jesus 
			would if He was physically next to me! So much joy fills my heart! A flood of gratitude overcomes me to hear His Promise and all of 
			what He said! 
			
			
			Prayer: 
			Dear Heavenly Father. You overwhelm me. I am in awe of Your promises 
			and words in the Bible to Comfort and Counsel me. Thank You. Thank 
			for Your Holy Spirit of Truth. Comfort me. Counsel me to live my 
			life as a testimony of the gift of Your Holy Spirit of Truth! Let my 
			belief and gratitude for Your Holy Spirit be reflected in my 
			choices, words, relationships, and deeds today. In Jesus' name. Amen. 
			
			
			Bette Hillman 
			
			
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			Scriptures: 
			1 Corinthians 13:13 (NIV) – “And now these three remain: faith, 
			hope, and love.  But the greatest of these is love.” 
			 
			
			
			
			Matthew 22:37-40 (NIV) – “Jesus 
			replied: ‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all 
			your soul and with all your mind’. This is the first and greatest 
			commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as 
			yourself.’ All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two 
			commandments.” 
			 
			
			
			1 John 4:9-10 (NIV) 
			– “This 
			is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only 
			Son into the world that we might live through him. 
			This is love: not that we loved God, but that he 
			loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins.” 
			
			
			 
			
			
			
			1 John 4:19 (NIV) – “We love because 
			he first loved us.” 
			 
			
			
			
			Message: 
			Without love there is no true faith. Without love there is no 
			genuine hope.  Is it really this simple? Why is it so easy to 
			stray? Why is it so easy to be caught up into anything else and 
			everything else? 
			
			
			Jesus taught the greatest two 
			commandments and both include love and that He came not to replace 
			the law, but to fulfill the law as “all the law and the prophets hang 
			on these two commandments.”  
			
			
			Advent is the perfect reminder that 
			the unseen power of love can open hearts, tear down walls of 
			suspicion and hate, and build bridges to the soul. Love shields us 
			from the arrows of hate and the spears of anger.  Love shines in our 
			eyes, unwrinkles our brows, and brings a smile to our lips. Love 
			attracts us to knowledge and wisdom. Love warms our hearts for 
			sharing and caring. 
			
			
			Advent calls us to meditation and 
			prayer. Meditation and prayer prepares us for the greatest gift of 
			love to us all, Jesus.  
			
			
			Let us greet this day and every day 
			with love in our hearts. 
			
			
			
			Prayer: 
			Thank You, Father, for Your unfailing Love. Thank You that we can 
			reach out to You for Your Love at any time and at any place. Help 
			us to navigate through the world’s distracting noise and seduction 
			to the transforming power of Your Love. Help us to reflect back 
			Your Love to others in all we say, think, and do. In Your Holy name 
			we pray. Amen. 
			
			
			
			Bette Hillman
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			Scripture: 
			Psalm 84:1-2 (NIV) – “How lovely is your dwelling place, Lord 
			Almighty!  My soul yearns, even faints, for the courts of the Lord; 
			my heart and my flesh cry out for the living God.”  
			
			Message: 
			This psalm was written by the sons of Korah. Korah led a rebellion 
			against Moses and Aaron. The punishment to Korah's sons was 
			banishment from the temple. This psalm touches me deeply as I hear 
			the cry of their souls longing to be with God in His Holy Temple. 
			
			Being in church on 
			Sunday, and more is a habit thankfully ingrained in me by my parents. 
			Sunday, morning as a family we were in the pew. When my father read 
			Evening Prayer in the chapel at All Saint's Episcopal Church, he 
			would take me with him to praise and pray. Whenever we went on 
			vacation as a family, we found a church for Sunday, morning. Even in 
			the Bahamas, we were in an Episcopal church on Sunday, hearing the 
			Word of God with His followers and refreshing our souls. 
			
			It became a habit for 
			my entire life. During summer camp, college, New York City, San 
			Francisco, and everywhere God placed me, this habit found a court of the 
			Lord. This habit for God's court even during our COVID 19 
			quarantine, placed me at our outdoor sanctuary by the lake for a 
			fresh encounter with God. I am so grateful for His courts. 
			
			Prayer: 
			Thank You, Father, for Your dwelling place, Your temple, Your 
			sanctuary. Thank You that You meet us there and that Your Presence 
			renews us and refreshes us! Thank You for the blessing of Your 
			courts. Thank You for sending Your son, Jesus, to wash away our 
			every sin. Thank You for loving us so much that Your son has 
			prepared a place for us with You in Your heavenly courts. Amen. 
			
			Bette Hillman 
			
			
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			 Scriptures: 
			James 4:8 (ESV) - "Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you.  
			Cleanse your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you 
			double-minded." 
			
			 
			
			James 4:8 (NLT) - "Come close to God, and God will come close to 
			you.  Wash your hands, you sinners; purify your hearts, for 
			your loyalty is divided between God and the world." 
			
			 
			
			Message: 
			Lent is a time to draw closer to God and to deepen our personal 
			relationship with Jesus through prayer, meditation, and worship.  
			Worship has become a vital part of my relationship with God and 
			Jesus.  Expressing authentically through words, lyrics, and 
			non-verbal expressions pouring out my heart to God has transformed 
			me.  
			 
			Not just prayer, not just meditation, but for me the act 
			of worship has brought me closer to Jesus and to His transforming 
			touch. It starts with prayer and meditation. It becomes worship, 
			deep honoring, extravagant respect, adoration, and reverence. 
			 
			Drawing closer to God has helped me to understand why some Psalm 
			begins as loud lamentations and anger; later transformed into words 
			of extravagant devotion, admiration, and praise.  
			 
			Lyrics to 
			songs echo in my mind with deeper meaning and understanding such as: 
			"We bring the sacrifice of praise into the house of the Lord" 
			by Kirk Dearman1; "No matter how I feel or what has 
			happened, I choose to praise Him with my whole heart, mind, body, 
			and soul!" and "I will sing of my Redeemer and His wondrous love for 
			me!" by Philip Paul Bliss2. 
			Our Lenten season is 
			our great opportunity to come before His Presence with praise, 
			thanksgiving, and our authentic desire to do His Will in our lives.  
			In doing so, we draw closer to Him, and He draws close to us. 
			 
			
			Prayer: 
			Father, in this moment we come before You praising You for this day 
			and are grateful to You, our God.  We ask that You take us 
			wholly into Your service today.  We place all the hours of this 
			day at Your disposal.  Keep us ready to do exactly as You 
			appoint.  Cleanse our hands, purify our hearts, and guide our 
			tongues for Your service today.  We are so grateful that we can 
			come before You right now and know that You hear us.  We pray 
			in the precious name of Your Son, Jesus.  Amen. 
			 
			
			Bette Hillman 
			1.  
			“We bring the sacrifice of praise” by Kirk Dearman and Morris 
			Chapman 1999 © Copyright.  Permission not required for use of Title 
			only. 
			
			2.  
			“I will sing of my Redeemer” by Philip Paul Bliss 1876.  
			Public Domain. 
			
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			Scripture: 
			John 10:10b (NIV) – “I have come that they may have life, and have 
			it to the full.”  
			
			Message:  
			Why did Jesus come?  John answers in 10:10b above.  In addition to 
			the greatest commandment to love God and our neighbor as ourselves, 
			what other instruction did he provide? 
			
			“Therefore be as shrewd as snakes 
			and as innocent as doves.” (Matthew 10:16b NIV), or as Willard puts 
			it: “Have the practical good sense of a snake, and be un-devious or 
			innocent as doves.” (Willard Swartley)  
			
			Spiritual care opens the door for 
			others to know Jesus and love him more deeply. 
			
			Spiritual care means having the 
			timing of a snake.  When God gives the opportunity to witness, or to 
			pray with someone, or to invite someone to grow in their 
			relationship with God, you are required to act confidently and 
			decisively. 
			
			Spiritual care also requires the 
			gentleness of a dove.  A dove is incapable of intrigue.  There is 
			nothing indirect about this harmless creature.  The importance 
			spiritual teaching places on “no guile” is great. One of the traits 
			of a child, greatest in the kingdom, is its inability to mislead. 
			
			More than anything else, people 
			need to hear and believe that God loves them.  The delicately 
			balance the combination of snake and dove to provide assertive, 
			timely, tender spiritual care. 
			
			Prayer: 
			Gracious Lord Jesus, you gave your disciples important instructions 
			when you sent them to serve and care for people.  Show us.  Help us 
			to be gentle and genuine.  Reach into our hearts now with just the 
			right word of instruction, hope or encouragement that we will know 
			and love you more deeply.  Pour out your spirit upon us that we may 
			become channels of your love and mercy to others.  Guide us to help 
			others see their need for you.  Give us opportunities to bring 
			others to you that they may know the joy of your healing and the 
			peace of your wholeness.  For it is in your name, Jesus, we pray.  
			Amen. 
			
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			Scripture: 
			Luke 11: 9-10 (NIV) – “So I say to you: Ask and it will be given to 
			you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to 
			you.  For everyone who asks receives; the one who seeks finds; and 
			to the one who knocks, the door will be opened.” 
				 
			
			Message: 
			My father prayed about everything.  He meditated with my mother 
			every morning for twenty minutes or more.  He asked God for help 
			with all of his challenges. 
			
			One day he shared with us four 
			children that he was having a terrible time keeping the raccoons out 
			of the orange trees.  They were eating, or tearing away all of the 
			oranges. 
			
			There is no doubt in my mind that 
			he had put forth a lot of effort to get rid of the raccoons.  
			Nothing was working.  He got so frustrated that he said his prayer 
			was; “God, these are Your orange trees and I know these are Your 
			raccoons.  But if you don't keep Your raccoons out of Your orange 
			trees, I am going to have to shoot them!” My father said that he 
			never had a problem with the raccoons after that prayer. 
			
			Prayer: 
			Father, thank You for answered prayers.  Thank You that we can come 
			to You about everything.  Thank You for listening to our prayers and 
			for being an active part of our lives every moment we ask.  Help us 
			to turn to You always and to recognize that You hear us.  Help us to 
			have faith that You will answer our prayers.  In Jesus name, we 
			pray.  Amen. 
			
			Bette Hillman 
			
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			Scripture: 
			Isaiah 46:3-4 (NIV) – “Listen to 
			me, you descendants of Jacob, all the remnant of the people of 
			Israel, you whom I have upheld since your birth, and have 
			carried since you were born.  Even to your old age and gray hairs I 
			am he, I am he who will sustain you.  I have made you and I will 
			carry you; I will sustain you and I will rescue you.”  
			
			Message: 
			The losses related to aging are very challenging for me.  My 
			expectations of what my life shoulda, coulda been overwhelm me 
			often. 
			
			In addition 
			to the scripture above from Isaiah, the poem below gives me comfort 
			and sets my feet on solid ground. 
			
			“I was 
			regretting the past  
			And fearing the future. 
			Suddenly my Lord was speaking” 
			
			‘My name is I 
			AM.’ He paused.  
			I waited. He continued. 
			‘When you live in the past  
			With its mistakes and regrets,  
			It is hard. I am not there. 
			My name is not I WAS.’ 
			
			‘When you 
			live in the future,  
			With its problems and fears,  
			It is hard. I am not there. 
			My name is not I WILL BE.’ 
			
			 When you 
			live in the moment, 
			It is not hard. I am here. 
			My name is I AM.’” 
			
			
			
			
			
			
			
			
			 Helen 
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			Prayer: 
			Thank you, Gracious God, for Your Presence.  Thank You for the 
			wisdom and experience we gain as we grow older, for the 
			relationships that deepen and grow richer over the years, for the 
			memories we cherish, and for the way You increase our faith over the 
			years. Thank You for the privilege of growing older, especially 
			since as we grow older we get to know You better. Thank You that 
			even death will be a doorway to being closer to You. Amen. 
			Bette Hillman 
			
			
			
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			Wednesday, 
			October 21, 2020  
			
				- 
				"The Connection" Series
			
			
			
			
			
			
			Assertiveness 
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			Scripture: 
			Ephesians 4:15 (NIV) – "Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will 
			grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the 
			head, that is, Christ."  
			
			Message: 
			The Gospel of Mark 9:22-24 (NIV) tells a story about Jesus right 
			after the transfiguration. Jesus and the disciples with him come 
			down to find the other disciples engaged in an argument. A man 
			explains that he has brought his son to be rid of his demon, and the 
			disciples were not able to do it. The father of the boy indicates 
			his fear when he says to Jesus, "But if you can do anything, take 
			pity on us and help us." 
			
			 “‘If you 
			can?’ said Jesus. ‘Everything is possible for one who believes.’” 
			
			 “Immediately 
			the boy's father exclaimed, ‘I do believe; help me overcome my 
			unbelief!’” 
			
			Both Jesus 
			and the boy's father are speaking the truth in love. They show by 
			example the power of assertive relating. The father could have 
			covered up his blunder by backtracking, “Oh sir, of course I believe 
			You can cure my boy. I'm sorry.” If he had been caught in the pull 
			of this lie, he might never have received Jesus' redemptive power. But the father's love for his son delivered him to speak the truth. I believe! Help my unbelief. 
			
			Jesus was the 
			perfect example of assertiveness. We can grow closer to Him and 
			grow up to be more like Him when we relate with other people more 
			assertively. 
			
			Assertiveness 
			is a positive, constructive way of relating to other people that 
			respects their needs, wants, and rights as well as one's own needs, 
			wants, and rights. 
			
			Assertiveness 
			is not a cookie cutter approach to relating. It calls for the 
			highest creativity you can find in yourself. It calls on you to be 
			you – genuine, thoughtful, and full of care. 
			
			Prayer: 
			Lord Jesus, thank You for Your mercy and Your love. Thank You for 
			Your example and help us to model our lives after Yours.  Give us 
			opportunities to respect, honor, and care for others so that they 
			can realize how much You value them, too, and how they can turn to 
			You for all they need. Help us to have the courage and compassion 
			we need to relate assertively with others. Thank You for hearing 
			our prayer. Amen. 
			
			Bette Hillman 
			 
			
			(first published in 2016)
			
			
			
			
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								Scriptures: 
								1 John 
								4:9-10, 19 (CSB) - "God's love was revealed 
								among us in this way.  God sent His One and 
								Only Son into the world so that we might live 
								through Him.  Love consists in this: not 
								that we loved God, but that He loved us and sent 
								His Son to be the atoning sacrifice for our
								
								sins.  We love because He first loved us." 
			
								 
								
								
								John 14:21 
								(CSB) – “And the one who loves Me will be loved 
								by My Father. I also will love him and reveal 
								Myself to him.”  
								
								
								Message: 
								Each year 
								these verses mean something more to me.  
								Each year Lent brings me to a renewed pursuit 
								for a relationship with Him.  Yet God is 
								the One who brings us into a relationship with 
								Him so that out of that relationship we have 
								everything we could possibly need. You and I 
								do not initiate a love relationship with God.  
								He initiated a relationship with you and me long 
								before our lives began on earth.  God 
								demonstrated His Love on the cross of Christ 
								Jesus. 
								
								So everything about the Lenten season is coming to 
								a new understanding of what His loving me means 
								and what my loving Him means.  Therefore, 
								experiencing God's love depends upon my loving 
								Him and deepening my personal relationship with 
								Christ Jesus.   
								
								It is a new awakening.  
								Because God loves you and me, He wants us to 
								love Him in return. 
								
								
								Prayer: 
								Father, thank 
								You for first loving me.  Open my eyes and 
								ears to a greater understanding of our loving 
								relationship.  If it is Your will to reveal 
								Yourself to me, help me to embrace Your 
								revelations and implement them in a way which 
								would be pleasing to You.  Help me to know 
								Your love and to pass it on.  In Jesus' 
								name.  Amen. 
								
								
								Bette Hillman 
			
			
			
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			Scriptures: 
				John 8:7 - "When they kept on questioning him, he 
			straightened up and said to them, 'Let any one of you who is without 
			sin be the first to throw a stone at her.'" 
			
			 
			
			
			Matthew 
			22:37-40 (KJV) – “Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord 
			thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy 
			mind.  This is the first and great commandment.  And the second is 
			like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself.  On these 
			two commandments hang all the law and the prophets.” 
			
			 Psalm 
			19:14 (NKJV) – “Let 
			the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart Be acceptable 
			in Your sight, O Lord, my strength and my Redeemer.” 
			
			
			Message:
			
			My mother made a lifetime choice to not speak 
			ill of others.  My father always said, “People are doing the best 
			they can at the time.  It may be a poor best in our eyes, but it is 
			the best they can do with what is happening at the moment.”  Jesus 
			said, “Let any one of you
			who is without sin 
			be the first to 
			throw a 
			first stone at her.” 
			and “Love thy neighbor as thyself.” 
			
			The first time I gave up gossiping for Lent, it 
			created a problem.  A flood of scathing thoughts and comments 
			poured forth on Sundays (when we took a break from Lenten fasting) 
			that I held back during the week.  It was time to ask God to 
			cleanse and purify the well from which the gossip came. 
			
			The other challenge to giving up gossip would come 
			when someone made a disparaging remark about another.  "I gave 
			up gossiping for Lent" created an awkward moment, although it did 
			stop the negative flow. 
			
			So, what is my choice now when the door for gossip 
			opens?  I say something like, "Let's pray for this person / 
			this situation." I ask God to help me turn topics for gossip 
			into prayer requests and prayer projects. 
			
			Will you join me? 
			
			Prayer: May the words of my mouth and the 
			meditations of my heart be acceptable in Your sight, O Lord, my 
			Strength and my Redeemer.  Amen 
			
			
			Bette Hillman 
			
			
 
			
			
 
			
			
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			Scripture:  
			John 13:17 (NIV) 
			- 
			 
			"Now that you know these things, you 
			will be blessed if you do them." 
			
			 
			
			Message:
			
			
			The words “comfort” 
			and its derivatives are 
			found
			120 times 
			in the 
			NKJV 
			Bible. The words “be comforting” are 
			found in the NKJV Bible only once
			in 2 Samuel 14:17, where 
			the words “be comforting” 
			pertain to the Lord taking care of all things.  
			We find the word “comfort” and its 
			derivatives three times in Isaiah 66:13 where God is portrayed at 
			the Israel’s comforting mother; and six times in 2 Corinthians 1:3-4 
			under “Comfort in Suffering”. 
			
			
			Advent is a season
			when we prepare to celebrate the birth of 
			our Savior Jesus. It can be a 
			comforting season, since we have 
			celebrated it many times. The familiar traditions can 
			feel comforting 
			to us. 
			
			
			But 
			remember that
			all the
			main characters in the
			Christmas story were stretched out of their comfort zones.  Mary and
			Joseph traveled to Bethlehem late in her pregnancy. The 
			shepherds left
			their sheep
			on the hillside
			to find the Christ 
			child. The wise men followed a star 
			over months and possibly years. 
			And God left the comforts of heaven to be born 
			as a child for us. All were stretched out 
			of their 
			ordinary comforts, to have
			their blessings
			occur. 
			
			
			Is it possible that, 
			in this
			season, 
			we too must stretch out of our own comfort 
			zones? Is
			it possible that we must
			reach, stretch,
			and seek
			new ways
			to serve others? Is
			the blessing of 
			this Advent
			season, the
			fresh encounter with
			Christ, coming through our
			stretching, reaching, and seeking
			Him beyond what we find 
			comforting? 
			
			
			
			Prayer: 
			
			Most Gracious Heavenly Father, we long 
			for You and for a 
			fresh encounter with
			You. Thank You for
			the blessings of
			this Advent season and 
			for the blessing of Your Son,  Jesus. Guide us where You 
			would have us stretch out 
			of our comfort zone so that we may give and receive blessings. 
			 Amen. 
			
			
			 Bette 
			Hillman 
			
			 (Editor’s 
			note: Author has given approval for edits to meet the original 
			intent of the Devotional by using the NKJV of the Bible.) 
			
			
 
			
			
 
			
			
 
			
			
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			Scriptures:
			Psalm 47:8 
			(NIV) – “God reigns
			over the nations;
			God is seated on
			his holy
			throne.” 
	
	
	Psalm 18:2 
	(NIV) – 
	
	“The Lord is my rock, my fortress and my deliverer;
	my God is my rock,
	in whom
	I take refuge, my 
	shield and the horn of my salvation, my stronghold.” 
	
	
	Isaiah 6:1 
	(NKJV) – “In the year that King Uzziah died, I saw the Lord sitting on a 
	throne, high and lifted up, and the train of His robe filled the 
	temple.” 
	
	
	1 Peter 5:1-2 
	(NKJV) – “The elders who are among you I exhort, I who am a fellow elder and 
	a witness of the sufferings of Christ, and also a partaker of the glory that 
	will be revealed: Shepherd the flock of God which is among you, serving as 
	overseers, not by compulsion but willingly, not for dishonest gain but 
	eagerly;”  
	
	
	Psalm 18:31 
	(NIV) – “For 
	who is God besides the Lord? And who is the Rock except our God?” 
	
	
	Message: 
	Effective leadership fascinates me. When
	thinking of leadership,
	“up” is
	good and “down” is not. We want to be “over” others, the “top dog,” 
	and at the “pinnacle” of power. We don’t think 
	of seeking a place “under” others, “low man on the totem pole,”
	or “at
	the bottom rung.” 
	
	
	Scripture uses
	spatial metaphors, too. “God
	reigns over
	the nations”
	(Psalm 47:1a). 
	God’s throne is “high and lifted 
	up” (Isaiah 6:1b). 
	Elders are “overseers” (1 
	Peter 5:2a). 
	
	
	The up / down language makes sense. To lead, you need a view of
	the landscape. However, being a great leader also means equipping 
	others from the bottom up, being a foundation, a buttress, and a platform to 
	provide support. 
	
	
	God is not only over us, but sets Himself under us. He is our 
	Rock, giving us a sure place on which to stand: “And who is the Rock except 
	our God?” (Psalm 
	18:31b). 
	
	
	Therefore, effective leadership is top-down and bottom-up. Overseeing and 
	providing foundation go together. 
	
	
	God is our
	true leader. He is our
	heavenly Father,
	and our
	Rock. 
	
	
	In all aspects of our lives, He 
	leads us and is our foundation 
	and buttress. He reigns over our lives and provides the platform. He is our 
	vision and our path to eternal life. 
	
	
	Prayer: 
	Thank You, Father God, for
	Your leadership. Thank You
	for Your example of
	true leadership through the birth and life of Your Son. Guide us 
	through this Advent season and set us on
	a new foundation through 
	the rebirth of Jesus in our hearts.
	Amen. 
	Bette 
			Hillman 
			
			
 
    
			
 
			
			
 
			
			
 
			
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			 Scripture: 
			John 2:1-11 - "Jesus Has the Power to Change Things."  
			Message: 
			Johnny Carson interviewed an eight-year-old boy on The Tonight Show 
			who had rescued two friends from a coal mine outside his home in 
			West Virginia. As Johnny questioned the boy, it became apparent to 
			him and the audience that the young man was a Christian. Johnny 
			asked him if he attended Sunday, school . When the boy said he did, 
			Johnny asked, "What are you learning in Sunday, school?" "Last week 
			our lesson was about when Jesus went to a wedding and turned water 
			into wine." The audience roared, but Johnny tried to keep a 
			straight face. Then he said, "And what did you learn from that 
			story?" The boy squirmed in his chair. It was obvious that he 
			hadn't thought about this. But then he lifted up his face and said, 
			"If you're going to have a wedding, make sure you invite Jesus!" Jesus has the Power to change things. Just imagine what He can 
			change in your life if you issue the invitation. When we invite 
			Jesus into every aspect of our lives, He can change past pain into 
			present comfort; old wounds into fresh wisdom; stale, old thoughts 
			into new, creative ideas to solve problems; and a cold silence into 
			a warm conversation. No matter where you are in your life, Jesus is 
			waiting for your invitation. Let Jesus into every part of your 
			life. 
			Prayer: 
			Heavenly Father, You have healed us, forgiven us, and given us new 
			life in your Son, Jesus. Thank You for loving us so. Thank You for 
			the courage to invite Jesus into every aspect of our lives and to 
			have faith in You totally. Amen. 
			Bette 
			Hillman 
			
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			Scripture: 
			Galatians 5:22-23 (NIV) – “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, 
			peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, 
			and self-control. Against such things there is no law.”  
			
			
			Message: 
			When I 
			am troubled, I seek peace and turn to words that will offer me “Rest 
			in the Lord”. When the fighting and finger pointing begin, I trust 
			the words of Galatians 5:22-23 and I turn to these words written by 
			Alan Redpath (British evangelist, pastor and author) in Victorious 
			Christian Living: Studies in the Book of Joshua (1955): “There is 
			nothing – no circumstance, no trouble, no testing – that can ever 
			touch me until, first of all it has gone past God and past Christ, 
			right through to me. If it has come that far, it has come with a 
			great purpose, which I may not understand at the moment. But as I 
			refuse to become panicky, as I lift up my eyes to Him and accept it 
			as coming from the throne of God for some great purpose of blessing 
			to my own heart, no sorrow will disturb me, no trial will ever 
			disarm me, no circumstance will cause me to fret – for I shall rest 
			in the joy of what my Lord is! That is the rest of victory!” 
			
			
			Prayer: 
			Thank You Lord, that I may find peace and victory through Your Word. Thank You that there are those much wiser than I, whose words help 
			me to rest in You. Amen. 
			
			Bette 
			Hillman 
			
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